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Dylan Gibson
2021年9月28日
I think these are the last of the photos that I have of Nagatoro. A flower bed shaped like a peace sign, as well as a bell at the top of the mountain to pray for world peace. Then there's a shot down the ropeway from the top of the mountain and a nice little shrine that I found near the station if I remember correctly. I also took a photo of a building at the Nagatoro Folk Museum and the flower fields nearby that were really beautiful. I can't stress enough how beautiful this place was. I really can't wait to go back for another visit and hopefully see the fireworks. I only heard them momentarily but it was just the last one or two shots sadly. The ropeway was really nice as well. We managed to get nice spots at the front for a great view
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開智国際日本語学校(Kaichi International School of Japanese)
2021年9月28日
[English/日本語] Things that Surprised Foreign Students When They Came to Japan - Love (2) In this article, I will introduce Japanese people's views on love. 1) The process of becoming a lover In your country, what is the difference between a friend and a lover? In Japan, there are several processes to change from a friend to a lover. In most cases, if you find someone you like, you first ask him/her out on a date. After a few dates, you tell them, "Please be my girlfriend. And if the person says yes, you're in, you become lovers. When I tell this story, some international students say, "This is like asking for marriage! About 30 years ago, many students would write letters asking for a girlfriend, but nowadays, students are confessing their love through social networking sites. It's a bit tedious, but if you want a Japanese lover, try to be aware of this process. 2) Don't feed the fish you catch? I often hear from foreigners that Japanese people are cold to their lovers. Are Japanese people really cold to their lovers? Japanese people are not very good at expressing their feelings straightforwardly, not just to their lovers. For this reason, it is said that they don't often say "I love you" to their lovers. In addition, since they want to have an equal relationship with their lovers, many men and women do not pay more for a meal, but rather split the bill. Also, working people are basically busy, so it is said that they date only once a week. If you just listen to this story, it sounds cold, doesn't it? Japanese people have their own unique expressions of affection. For example, many couples want to feel that they are always together by having a pair of things because they are too busy to see their lover very often. There are many couples who go out to buy a pair of rings, especially when they have just become lovers. I often hear Europe and America students say, "It's strange to wear a pair of rings when you're not engaged." You and your girlfriend or boyfriend should discuss and decide which culture you want to go with. 3) Special events for lovers There are several special events for lovers. There are several special events for lovers, such as each other's birthday, the anniversary of their relationship, Valentine's Day, etc. Among them, Christmas is the one that surprises foreigners. In Japan, Christmas has a strong image of being an event to spend with lovers rather than a family event. Perhaps because of this, around November, people say, "Christmas is only a month away. If I don't get a girlfriend soon, it will be a very lonely Christmas. " Also, In Japanese TV dramas and movies, Christmas is always portrayed as a romantic scene. It is also an important event to introduce your lover to your family. For Japanese people, introducing your lover to your family is when you are willing to marry him/her, so you carefully choose the clothes and souvenirs you will wear on that day. On the other hand, in many other countries, letting your family meet you often does not have such a heavy meaning. Therefore, asking your Japanese lover to "meet your family" may cause misunderstandings between you. Some of them may say, "I don't want to get married yet!" and you may be rejected, so be careful! In this article, I introduced some of the Japanese views on love. Talking about love is one of the most popular topics in class. Please enroll in a Japanese language school and talk about it with people from various countries. 留学生が日本に来て驚いたこと~恋愛編②~ 今回は日本人の恋愛観について紹介します。 ①恋人になるまでのプロセス みなさんの国では友達と恋人と何が違いますか?日本では友達から恋人に変わるためにはいくつかのプロセスがあります。ほとんどの場合、気になる人がいたら、まずはデートに誘います。何回かデートをして、その後「私と恋人になってください。」と相手に伝えます。そして、相手からOKがもらえれば恋人同士になります。この話をすると、留学生の中には「結婚をお願いするときみたい!」と言う人もいます。30年くらい前は、学生の場合、「恋人になってください」という手紙を書く人が多くいました。ちなみに、最近の学生はSNSで告白しているそうです。少し面倒ですが、日本人の恋人がほしい人はこのプロセスを意識してみてくださいね。 ②釣った魚にエサはやらない? 日本人は恋人に冷たいという話を外国人からよく聞きます。日本人は本当に恋人に冷たいのでしょうか。日本人は恋人に限らず、自分の気持ちをストレートに伝える人が少ないです。そのため、恋人に対しても「愛している」と言葉であまり伝えないと言われています。また、恋人には対等な関係を望むので、男性でも女性でも食事の際にどちらかが多めに払うことはなく、割り勘にする人も多いです。また、社会人は基本的に忙しいので、デートは1週間に1回程度だと言われています。この話だけ聞くと冷たく感じますよね。日本人は日本人らしい愛情表現があります。例えば、忙しくて恋人とあまり会えないため、ペアのものを持つことで「いつも一緒にいる」と感じたいと思うカップルが多くいます。特に恋人になりたてで、ペアの指輪を買いに行くカップルは多いです。欧米の学生から「婚約していないのにペアの指輪は変です。」という意見をよく聞きます。どちらの文化に合わせるか、恋人とよく話し合って決めましょうね。 ③恋人同士の特別なイベント 恋人同士の特別なイベントがいくつかあります。お互いの誕生日、付き合った記念日、バレンタイン…。その中で外国人に驚かれるのはクリスマスです。日本ではクリスマスは家族で過ごすイベントというよりも、恋人と過ごすイベントというイメージが強くあります。そのせいか、11月ごろになると、「クリスマスまであと1か月。早く恋人を作らないと、とてもさみしいクリスマスになってしまう。」と恋人のいない人は焦り始めます。日本のドラマや映画のラブストーリーでも、クリスマスはロマンチックなシーンとして描かれています。 恋人を家族に紹介するのも大切なイベントです。日本人にとって恋人を家族に紹介することは、その恋人と結婚をしてもいいと考えているときにするため、その日に着ていく服やお土産を慎重に選びます。一方、他の多くの国では、家族に会わせることはそんなに重い意味がない場合が多いです。そのため、日本人の恋人に「家族に会って」というと、お互いに勘違いが起こる可能性があります。中には「まだ結婚したくない!」と言われてふられてしまうこともあるので、気を付けましょうね。 今回は日本人の恋愛観の一部を紹介しました。恋愛についての話は授業でとても盛り上がるトピックの一つです。ぜひ、日本語学校に入学して色々な国の人と語り合いましょう。
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Dylan Gibson
2021年9月27日
Visited Fujiiya a small eatery in Kameido famous for its gyoza. It was definitely good, and they had an interesting tare for the gyoza as well. I think it had chashu inside of it and it tasted great. I threw in a little soy sauce as well but I think it's probably perfect without it. I recommend shaking the bottle before pouring it as I had a little too much oil come out instead of the actual sauce. It was also my first time getting shoyu ramen in a while. I'm usually a bigger fan of miso, probably because it feels warm and filling on cold days but is great on hot days too. That being said, I was pleasantly surprised by this shoyu ramen, was a really refreshing flavor and the noodles were perfect. The restaurant is really cheap too, I think a normal chashu ramen and 5-piece gyoza was just ¥780, which is super cheap. They also had a lot of cool photos and signatures on the wall from/with famous entertainers like "Downtown," etc. Cool place, definitely recommend it!
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